Friday, April 3, 2009

We are passing down the tradition


















of the older sister buying the prom dress for the younger. It is a beautiful tradition of love and intensity of family relationship, as well as maternal overload :). I am grateful for the reminder of the tradition from my Jo. I almost forgot.
They went shopping for it minus their agoraphobe mother. Who hates the mall, at present, not for fear. Elder sister is spending a paycheck on the endeavor and the beauty of sisterly love is intensified while the maternal bond between I and my children is distancing for my work schedule doesn't allow the investment of my own time.
Time will tell what this umbilical cord cutting will mean in the future. If it means that I am remiss in my maternal duties, that is between myself and God. My children seem to forgive, if not understand. I am me and it is a "depression", sacrifices must be made and the girls have formed their own Walker sisterhood.



We have a joke, that, when we were children (Boddens), people could say whatever they wanted about mother, or grandmother and we were never maddened by these things. But, talk about sister and the lion arises from our breasts. So we (our brand of Walkers) say, you know how the children, in the old days, would say "Yo greasy granny!" We would just say, "Yep!" So when we argue for fun; the end of the argument is "Yo momma!" and we all say, "Yep!". Because I am the momma and I said so.
In our house, it is God, no higher, who we defend. You can say whatever in jest about others and we say, "Yep!" cause everyone is a sinner. Only God is perfect and altogether lovely. Respect of the utmost is to Him alone.
But just don't talk about my sista! :{ Yep!
We do try not to tear one another to shreds; it is only in fun that we rank on one another. :)















Amos and JO-Andy!

Were the reason that we joke about the love of sister, so much. We all remember the love of the fight that we purported in our household. It seems that we have put off fighting as we are grown now. But I do feel that the defending of the honor of sister is something to be passed on. This is how we are doing it with my pacifistic children. I can't take out the boxing gloves and teach them to defend eachother's honor with bloodshed. I have to lay in my bed and be doubled over on my day off and they rise to the challenge. I used to love the love of Amy and Joanne, that they were so inseparable that they had only one name between them Joamy or Amyjo, whichever you were calling. They were knit together through the trial of having us as big sisters and defended oneanother forever. Jo almost got put out of school for loving Amy so. I'll let her give me permission to infringe on that privacy copy of the story.

2 comments:

Joanne Bodden said...

Wow Jayne
The details are so delicious. Elyse is buying the dress? I love it. This makes the whole day so much more important. There is a special power in sisterhood. I will write about it soon. I remember that childhood sister love which has grown into an awesome gratitude and a humble realization that God's Grace is more than our minds can ever see the whole of~ but what we can perceive is enough to make you lay face-down in awe. I am waiting for the next post!

Jayne said...

yup

Title- The Studious One!

Title-  The Studious One!
artwork by Elyse

Of biscuits and syrup

Of biscuits and syrup
tasty treats

Happy Saturday!

Happy Saturday!
a day at the Raptor Center.

Widdle Emmie in outer space school

Emmie jumped on the bus and off it flew out into the atmosphere. There was a set of clouds with turbulence right above the house and it took a few minutes for my Emmie to buckle her seatbelt. They hit the bump hard and it knocked my Emmie out of her seat and she bumped her head. The video camera came on and the monitor looked through and stated, Ms. Emmie, where are you? You are not in your seat. Where are you? I am alright I fell because I hadn’t buckled correctly. Well jump up Emmie we have a long way to go and you have to be buckled there is entirely too much turbulence in the stratosphere for you to unbuckle now. As soon as we are through this weather system there will be straight sailing but right now you must buckle. Emmie scrambled into the seat with intensity and purpose now. She watched every cloud pass her window and her nose was pressed to the window trying to see the top of the house as it drifted slowly out of sight. Soon they were not only out of sight of the house, the sun came out brightly and just as quickly they were putting on the atmospherical breathing apparatus and the outerspherical lights. The ABA and the OL. These precautions were to make them appear to be satellites to the radar as they were out in the ionosphere. Emmie knew all about this now. She had gone to the orientation and had a good breakfast and it took them 20 minutes for her to get out past the atmospherical pull and to feel the zero gravity. It would be 15 minutes before the gravity simulators would take effect, a glitch in the system which was being worked on. Until then, they enjoyed the couple of minutes of floatation, while being connected to the seats by belt. The first thing they saw everyday was the strataflotsam. The items which had been dumped into the atmosphere by earlier generations. What would their generation do about this ecological waste area that remained floating above their heads? This was a question for the generations. For now it was the area that they had to guide through on the way to school.

Midnight at the OASIS

Midnight at the OASIS
Sunset in Huntersville

My little Emmie

ran to the bus on the first day of the last year of school. 2 buns on the side of her head. She kissed me and ran at dawn to the bus. She was starting the adventure of a lifetime. I would never see that little girl again, she was going to woman school!

My Father and I 1989

My Father and I 1989

to the tune of Parsley, Sage, Rosemary and Thyme

A VISIT TO PAPA











Are you going to Mary Immaculate?

Apricots, Chocolate Cherries and Pie,



Remember me to the one who lived there,



He once was a true love of mine,



Tell him to buy me an acre of land,



Apricots, Chocolate Cherries and Pie,



Between the muddy Hudson in Jamaica Bay,



Then, He’ll be a true love of mine,

Tell him to sow in it seeds of pure cream,



Apricots, Chocolate Cherries and Pie,



And build Ice cream mountains and buildings of whipped cream,

Then, He’ll be a true love of mine,



Tell him to reap them with sickles of M&M’s,



Apricots, Chocolate Cherries and Pie,



And chew bubble gum and eat till we’re done,



Then, He’ll be a true love of mine.



Tell him to run it off down the motor parkway,



Apricots, Chocolate Cherries and Pie,



After your done 50 pushups



and jog down the West Side Highway,



Then he’ll be a true love of mine…

(Don’t wait for me today dad, The kids are sick again, My tummy’s bulging again, My heart is aching again, And now there’s no love there…)





He once was, a true love of mine….So, Girls, I do beg you don't miss your Daddy,Apricots, Chocolate cherries and Pie,You have one short chance to see him on this side, Go visit him and let your light shine.