


Kindergarten assessment was a beautiful experience in the Walker tradition. It reminded me of what was one of the most attractive points of Walkerdom when I first met my husband.
Ben and his sister Gwen had the most interesting sibling relationship I had ever seen. Not at all maternal, definitely sibling and yet the age difference was huge to me. She challenged him and grew him and helped him. By the time, I had come into the family the process was just about over, but I sat in on one or two meetings about his financial aid and other scholastic challenges that Gwen seemed most observant of and interested in. I was awed.
Yesterday, when I came in from Kindergarten Assessment, De-ja-vu happened.
Elyse sat Ezra down in the kitchen and asked him all of the details of the day; her interest as a sister and as his pre-school teacher. I was amazed that without question the family dynamic is being passed down and that the expressions of love, from generation to generation are imitated, when seen, and mystically communicated when never having seen them.
I loved the intimacy of siblings talking about the little details of the Kindergarten world.
Now, if I can only find a place for myself in the communication aspect of these things.
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