Ginger and Snap, my pear trees have taken to their terrestial homes as well as can be expected, for transplants. Instead of my home looking like the Sahara; now, there are some green and some trees dotting the landscape. It is far from my desires of the beauty of Aunt Dorothy's well manicured and beautifully colorful garden for friends and personal tourists to enjoy.
When I went to her house, years and years ago now, we didn't tour the inside of the house, we sat inside and talked and then she took me out to her garden to show me how she prays for her sisters with this flower and that flower. I was so inspired but never able to achieve the goals that she had so ably set before me.
All of a sudden, I am here in the South and my longing heart for the time with my sisters and brother helps me to understand her devotion to her garden. This was a positive expression of her missing the sisters (I don't think she had a brother).
My neighbors, to the left of us, are a very young couple and their crepe myrtle tree is so tall and blooming at this point in the season; whereas mine is still recuperating from the ice storm, which stunted it down and the drought. It is shorter than it was when we first moved in and still more full of leaves and branches. I will have to do my homework to find out how to get it to do what my neighbor's is doing. It is beautiful in my eyes and the first fruit, I hope, of a budding prayerlife of gardening.
I am grateful for the memory of Aunt Dorothy telling me what to do with that grief without telling me what it is for. She didn't say, One day, you are going to be far away from your sisters and brothers and then you will have to pray for them everytime you look at the flowers. She just brought me out to her garden, at a time that was very vulnerable for me and I drank in the beauty of what she had planted and the beauty of the sentiment that went with it.
Maybe, I'll put my elderly pride aside and ask my neighbor how she got her crepe myrtle to bloom like that?
2 comments:
yeah! its much better,
adorei o blog! pena que eu não sei falar inglês...
I love green!! the color of the hope, the better way to find the faith...
oh, I forgot, I have no faith... I have no love...
sorry, I don't speak english, but I hope you understand
você é minha vizinha, hehehe
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