Unfortunately, we had to say no to a very exciting white water rafting trip for the Evster. This came with many sobs and tears. It was welcomed with less than acceptable upsetment from her and the general consensus(if that is a word). I am the bad guy again, it comes with the job. I figure, it is my job to keep her from killing herself while under my jurisdiction. When she is grown she can follow the adventurous spirit that is within her from her Aunties who travelled across the street at Rochdale and hike the rocks on the Palissades.LOL. Right now, I don't have enough faith in the elements of the earth to let her to her own recognizance on such a trip. I love her and I know that she will get over it. Now, I am in the doghouse for a few days, again.
Thanks for the happy comments, always accepted!
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Peace Jayne hope your well?
love your blogs been reading ....i haven't had a chance to comment on them busy being taxi driver for these guys between tennis basketball work , thes guys keep me busy...
I did have a question for you DO YOU remember when mom and dad told us now for everything.....why do you think that was????(fear)
if we live they the way the did we would never see the world.....Why i say that is because i have been water rafting so fun you all need to do it ....STOP SAY NO LIVE THROW YOUR CHILDERN!!!!! ive been to PARIS through medinahs eyes ,ive been to spain throught sajeeda ,and medinahs eyes,texas,by muffin....LIVE and let live
love you guys jackie travel even if its by the kids saj now wants to go to china , and medinah wants to go to thailand
There are a few things I want all my nieces and nephews to know! They are really valuable, they can do anything they put their minds to~ But for this one which I have seen too many times to count ~I say to Evvy: USE THIS... I wish I had. I often just sucked it up. Disappointment can be used to gather your strength, to learn how to be heard and maybe not always to get what you want but to be sure that what you want is worth the effort it to go for it! I am sorry she can not go & know you will not budge on this but don't let her sulk please keep her talking and let her know that her ideas have weight and she matters... I know you do this already but I just want to add my 2 cents. Kiss her for me She is stunningly beautiful!
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